It seems like the most requested kink on OnlyFans might be mommy content. This is especially true for any creator with a “mom look”. Rather than resisting this, I recommend embracing it. Here I will break down the formula for producing mommy videos for your clients.
What is Mommy Content? Is it Role Play?
Mommy content is technically a simple kind of role play. However unlike most role play, it takes very little effort to accomplish.
While viewing the content, the viewer will pretend two things:
- You are their mom
- Their relationship with you includes a sexual dynamic
It really doesn’t take much effort to make this happen. The viewer’s imagination will take them there. All you really need to do is not ruin it for them by introducing conflicting information (such as by referring to yourself as the viewer’s wife or secretary or something).
Mommy content is also implicitly a form of ageplay. The viewer is pretending to be young enough to be your son or daughter. How young? It varies. I would say that most people pretend to be about the age they were when they became sexually active, sexually conscious, or sexually interested in women around them, including their real mother. That is quite a wide range, and it can be both before or after puberty, or even into college age.
You are the Viewer’s Mommy
It’s very simple. In video, refer to yourself (in the third-person) as “Mommy” or “your mommy”:
“Do you like what Mommy is wearing?”
“Mommy’s pussy is so wet!”
“Would you like your mommy to kiss it?”
“Your mommy is so horny right now!”
There is no need to overdo it. You don’t have to refer to yourself as “Mommy” in every sentence. You can still refer to yourself as “I” and “me”. It’s important to establish your role early in the video. Continue to call yourself “Mommy” often in the video, because the word itself is arousing to viewers of this kind of content, but don’t make it annoyingly repetitive.
Sexual Dynamic
There are a lot of choices here, and if you end up making a lot of mommy content, you should experiment with all of them.
#1: Your Usual Sexual Dynamic – Whatever you normally do in videos will work fine. Most content creators express sexuality in videos in their own way, in a way that they feel natural or comfortable with. This is a great place to start for your first mommy video: just call yourself “Mommy” and then do your usual thing.
#2: None at All – This is actually more complicated than it sounds. Theoretically, you are playing a mommy who has no acknowledged sexual thoughts about her son/daughter. Instead, the viewer is the only pervert here. This works well for any kind of spying or voyeur video. Mommy forgets about and ignores the viewer, and then does a lot of bending over? Mommy goes into the bathroom or bedroom and the viewer/camera spies through the door as she undresses, showers, or uses her vibrator?
#3: Innocent – Mommy has a completely innocent attitude about whatever is happening. In other words, none of this is naughty, and your eyebrows don’t convey any kind of wickedness. For example, it’s perfectly normal and not weird at all for her son/daughter to be in the bedroom while Mommy is dressing. This is easy for videos that simply involve nudity. However, it can work for anything. For example, a sweet and completely innocent delivery of, “Mommy is going to play with her toy now. Do you want to watch?”
An excellent variation of this is to speak to the viewer as if they are very young. Using a sing-song voice, baby talk, and intentionally juvenile terms like “boobies”, “peepee”, and “cummies”. The younger the viewer feels, the more inappropriate and dirty the content feels, which contrasts with the sweet, innocent, and wholesome attitude of Mommy.
#4: Nurturing + Sexual – In my opinion, this is the hottest. Almost by definition, moms are caring, nurturing, and sympathetic. It is very powerful to turn this aspect of motherhood toward the sexual needs and desires of the viewer. “Oh, you poor baby, is your dick hard, and no one will help you with it?” Those needs and desires can be the usual ones related to sex, or they can be special desires related to sex with Mommy.
[I should probably suggest a list of topics …]
Another powerful combination is sympathy for the viewer’s shame. A good mom is always in our corner, Mommy loves you anyway, etc. When Mommy finds out that he son or daughter desires her sexually and is ashamed about it, Mommy will tell them it’s okay. All of the inciting incidents for shame (catches the viewer with Mommy’s panties, masturbating, spying, has a small penis) can be turned into sympathy and encouragement.
See the “Don’t Be Shy” section below.
#5: Dominating – Requires more acting skill. This is a fairly broad category, which covers all the same territory as other female domination kink. However, there can be some mommy-specific kink factors. Mothers are naturally in a position of dominance over their sons/daughters, and it is common for the viewer’s incest kink to be entwined with dominance and submission. Mommy is angry. Mommy must punish the viewer. Mommy humiliates the viewer. (Small penis humiliation + ageplay = extra.)
The viewer’s desire for Mommy is itself cause for anger and shame. Also, catching the viewer with Mommy’s panties, masturbating over pictures of Mommy, or spying on Mommy.
#6: Non-Con, Dub-Con – Requires the most acting skill. The idea here is that Mommy is an unwilling participant in the sexual activities. Mommy is blackmailed, negotiating for something she desperately wants/needs, her mind has been controlled, or perhaps there is physical force*. Mommy is afraid or angry. To make this work, the performer will have to have a one-sided conversation that explains the nature of the coercion. Producing content of this type will take some effort, but there is a substantial audience for this kind of thing.
(* There are likely legal implications for producing/distributing content depicting physical force. I wouldn’t recommend it for OnlyFans.)
“Don’t Be Shy”
Sex in general is hugely psychological, even before all of the societal pressures about sex are added to it. A key component of most adult content is permissiveness (also known as willingness, availability, consent). It serves to relieve everyone’s psychological barriers against sexual satisfaction. In most adult content, communicating an underlying message of “yes” is hot, because it steps past our sexual anxieties. “Yes, you can do that.” “Yes, I will do that for you.”
This is especially true of incest kink and mommy content. I’ve mentioned shame elsewhere in this post. The taboo nature of incest means that most clients with this kink have some shame about it, even if they have successfully confronted their shame.
Furthermore, when your viewers ageplay, they are reliving a time before they had resolved their shame, a time before they knew how to articulate the rightness or wrongness of their sexual desires.
The language of sexual encouragement and the language of encouraging mothers overlaps. A simple statement of, “don’t be shy,” or, “it’s okay,” or, “I want you to,” speaks volumes. It says, “even though the world says you should be ashamed of your desires, in this fantasy, your desires are valid and meaningful, and you are deserving of fulfillment.”
Mommy Activities
There are a few normal mothering activities that can have a sexual bent.
Breastfeeding – This is the most common one. There are a lot of ways to handle this, from overt to reading between the lines. A mom’s boobs in the viewer’s face automatically evokes fondness for nursing. You can offer to let the viewer suck Mommy’s breasts without forcing a breastfeeding kink into the video. Or you can talk about it specifically, referring to “Mommy’s milk”, or “Do you want Mommy to feed you?” It should go without saying that any content creator who can lactate would be wise to capitalize on this ability.
Diapers, Potty Training – These are fairly niche kinks, and a huge turn-off for most viewers, so I would recommend leaving these for custom content.
“Mom” vs. “Mommy”
Whether the viewer prefers the term “Mom” or “Mommy” will largely depend on how young they are pretending to be.
For viewers pretending to be quite young, “Mommy” really enhances that for them. For viewers pretending to be teens, “Mom” is a better fit.
I would say, when in doubt, refer to yourself as “Mommy”.
That said, you could make some “Mom” videos and some “Mommy” videos, and caption them appropriately when you describe the videos to your clients.
Mom vs. Step-Mom
There are two reasons to use the word “step-mom” in incest content. One of them is stupid.
The valid reason is that many people really had step-parents, about whom they developed sexual interest. The root of their mommy kink likely has to do with their lived experience, and their incest kink only works with step-moms. I suppose there are a lot of people looking for this kind of content specifically.
The other reason is a legal consequence of vaguely written “obscenity” laws that attempt to regulate or ban pornography. Mainstream adult content producers, and possibly credit card companies, have latched onto the prefix “step-” as a get-out-of-jail-free card to protect them from liability. It’s not incest if they aren’t blood relatives, or something. You may have noticed that Clips4sale automatically rewrites any mention of “mom”, “dad”, “brother”, “sister”, etc. in titles and descriptions to add the “step-” prefix. Mainstream producers go out of their way crowbar in a line early in every video that establishes that they are only step-relatives. It’s stupid, and it dilutes the effectiveness of the content to satisfy incest kink.
In any case, I recommend avoiding the terms “step-mom” or “step-son” in your content unless it is specifically requested by clients. Most clients seeking step-mom content know that you call your step-mom “Mom”, even if she isn’t your original mother.